Aug 072012
 

Why do you spend your time in grief
Brooding over things that shook your faith and belief
Thinking of all the time that has gone by
Reflecting on all the things that left you with a sigh

Do not let the miseries of the past hold you back
Do not let the past make you weak and slack
Do not let the past fill you with sadness and sorrow
Do not let the misfortunes of the past put shackles on your tomorrow

What use is all this sadness and regret
All the time lost you can never get
Do not ruin your present for the failures of the past
Enjoy the present, it might not last

The failures and misfortunes have a lesson to teach
To help you grow and extend your reach
Learn the lesson so that you do not repeat it
But do not end up in regret and do not quit

Do not let the past become a bane
All your strength from the present do not let it drain
The sun sets everyday only to rise again
Let the pain from the past add to your gain

The present is here to live fast and have a blast
Let go of all the mistakes of the past
To write a new and glorious future
If the past was a misfortune let the future be an adventure

Do not be held a prisoner of your past
Each moment spent in the past is a waste of the present
From now make sure each moment is well spent
To spend each moment not in repent but giving your hundred percent

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Jun 102012
 

All my life, I was afraid
To take risks, to try new things
To let my dreams take wings
Always held back by fear strings

I had a nice and decent job
Which helped me move along with the mob
It helped me pay the bills and get through
But I wondered if to myself I was being true

Each day was the same as yesterday
With nothing to learn and nothing to hope for
My life had become a routine chore
I had become just an ordinary guy next door

All the worries, frustrations and fears
Had become a part of my daily life
With nowhere to go and nothing to be done
I had become a rusty old gun

My days had become a bore and my life a pain
I waited for death to come and end it all
I realized my whole life had gone down the drain
My life seemed like a worthless piece of grain

I regretted if only things had been different
If I had taken a chance and not been so indifferent
If only I had listened to my heart
If only I had followed my dreams

If only I had not let fear decide things
If only I had the courage to follow my callings
If only I had taken a step with hope and faith
In grief and regret I wouldn’t have had a bathe

In the end, I realized my life had been mediocre
I had lived risk free and become a joker
I was the man who played safe
Only to realize that life was never failsafe

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Dec 192011
 

 Humans occupy the highest place in the tree of evolution. There are many reasons for this but the most important one is our ability to think. Our ability to think has brought us from a stage of hunting animals for food to a stage where we are able to build sky scrapers and even venture into space. Thought is the source of all wealth that was ever created in this world. Man with his ability to think has scaled mountains, built bridges, made the impossible as possible.

What about you? Do you really think? Do you give a thought to all the things that happen around you? Do you think for yourselves or let other do it for you. Do you follow any leader, any paper or any cult blindly without giving it a thought? Your opinions, your thoughts, your reflections are they all your own or borrowed from the society, your family or friends, the world in general. What distinguishes one man from another is his ability to think.

What are your beliefs? The life you lead, the decisions you make to a large extent are determined by your beliefs. Do you form your own beliefs about things in general or do you accept it because someone of authority has told it so. Do you have thoughts of your own or do you find yourselves always quoting others and drawing from others works. In any subject or matter do you form opinions of your own or do you find yourself regurgitating the views and opinions of others.

Do not let others think for you. Make your own decisions. Think about what you want in life? Think hard and take a decision about what you want to do with your time here. Do not let others decide for you. Over any issue or cause take a stand after careful thinking. Do not go with the flow or the majority. Do not do something just because it is accepted or a lot of people are doing it. If it doesn’t make sense to you, there is no point in doing it just for the sake of doing or trying to fit in.

 Do You Really Think?

Many of us find thinking a very hard task. When faced with any issue we rarely think and act, most of us just react. We are happy to let others do the thinking part for us. When you give away the powers to think and take decisions you give away the power over your life. A lot of great men have said a lot of things, but all of them need not be correct and all of them may not suit you. Think about them and accept only those which you feel are correct and apply to you.

Reading books is good but you must also have thoughts of your own. You shouldn’t become a person of collected opinions and thoughts. You can draw upon the thoughts of great men and women but to stand out, to make a mark it should have a flavor of your own. Amidst all the scientific developments, all the social networks we have lost the art of thinking. It would do you a lot of good if you can think and draw your own conclusions about nature, life, the universe and god rather than believing blindly. We seem to have become a generation of followers, resigned to our fates rather than thinking about things and thinking our way out of problems and obstacles.

 Only when you question can you truly grow. When was the last time you thought about anything? When was the last time you were engaged in deep thought? By thinking I do not mean just plain repetition of thoughts, I do not mean the repeating of same thoughts that you had yesterday and the day before and the day before that. When was the last time you thought and questioned your ideals, your morals, your purpose and the chief aim of your life? Have you ever given a deep thought to all of these or do you find it comfortable to go with the flow, to just go where life takes you.

 Great things happen only when we think. And remember you think, therefore you are

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Dec 012011
 

Are you playing the supporting/secondary role in your own life? Don’t you consider yourself as a hero/lead actor of your life? Are you content playing the second fiddle? It’s your life. Take control of it. You are the central character in your life. You are the producer, writer, director and the actor. You are the hero of your life. It’s your movie. It’s your movie called life. You are putting money, time and hardwork into it. How can you let someone else take the main role? To make the movie a success you should take up the hero’s role and enact it well. The success of the movie will depend on you and you alone.

Your life should revolve around you. You have every right to choose the characters that you want to work with. But no matter how many characters or actors are there no one gets to play the lead role except you. It’s your life; you have every right to decide whom you want to spend it with. It’s your choice. If you do not like someone, do not waste your time thinking about them. If you find someone sucking your energies and driving you crazy, let them go. There is no point in holding on to destructive relationships. Have no guilt about it. You deserve the best, only let those people into your life who would be able to contribute positively, who would inspire you, who would love you and stand by you.

Life is all about making choices. Your choices would go a long way in helping you play the lead role. Make good choices, those that would have a positive impact in your life. Many people only play a small role in our lives, few would play long and lasting roles and very few would come with you till the end. Only you can decide who will be your friends, your best friends and who will come with you till the end.

Do you play the lead role in your life Do You Play the Lead Role in Your Life?

In your life you should have the locus of control. Do not let someone else control it. Do not let someone else impose conditions on you. Do not live your life according to someone else’s whims and fancies. If you do not have any plans for you will end up fitting in someone else’s plan. You would end up as a puppet and stepping stone for such men. You will be trampled upon by great men on their way to success and glory.

Do not let others dictate terms to you. Do not let others decide for you. Do not follow someone’s visions and dreams. Follow your own course. Take the road destined for you and you alone. Do not be weak. Do not feel helpless; take control of your life. Hold the reins tight in your hands and take it in the direction you want to go. Do not leave your life to chance and circumstance. Plan it, control it and steer it towards success and greatness.

You are the hero of your life. Let this fact ring in your ears day in and day out. Perform your role well and may you keep winning the award for the best actor in a lead role all through your life.

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Nov 092011
 

Does the mere thought of it scare you? Do you live in fear that your life, the people you love, your dreams, hopes and aspirations are all going to end one day. No matter whether you fear it or accept the fact bravely, it is the ultimate truth of life. Everyone is going to die one day. What matters is how did you spend your time here? Did you have a wonderful experience? Remember each passing day brings you closer to death. Each moment spent does not add to your life, it only takes you closer to the end. Your contract to stay here will expire one day. Do not act as if you have forever to live. Watch how you spend your days and time here. Do you spend your days in meaningful pursuits or you just waste them allowing your life to rot away. Denial of the fact that you will die one day will not help.

We do not know when our lives will end. You could die today, tomorrow or 100 years from now. This makes us complacent; we rarely take our lives seriously. But what if you knew your date of death. What if you were told that you would die on a specific day? You have until only that day to live. Your death is no longer something that will occur in the future, something that is left to chance but something that will happen at a particular date and time. Armed with such knowledge how different would your life be. You now have a definite time period to live .What would you do in the time you have left

Depending on the time frames you have left to live how different would your life be. How will you plan and live in the time you have left.

Depending on the time you have left you need to set your priorities. What would you do in each of these periods?

10 years to live

Ten years is a long time. A lot can happen in such a time frame. How would you like to spend the last ten years of your life? Would you want to start your own company and leave your mark behind? Wouldn’t you want to follow your heart and chase your dreams? What do you want to leave behind for your family and for the world? 10 years if utilized correctly is enough time to make a lasting impact on the world. Realize what you want, make a plan and go about accomplishing those things. Make those ten years the best years of your life. Many great men in a span of 10 years have accomplished what ordinary mortals wouldn’t have accomplished even after a thousand births. Don’t you want to be one of them?

10 months to live

What if you had only had 10 months to live? What would your priorities be? Where do you want to live for the last ten months of your life and with whom? Would you visit the places you always dreamed of? What were the things you wanted to do the most? Would you do them? 10 months is short time to live, but if you set your heart to the things you really want to do you can accomplish wonders.

10 weeks to live

10 weeks is around 3 months of time. Though a very short time, the best way to spend your time would be to make list of all things that you wanted to do in your life and from those pick a few which when accomplished will give you immense happiness and contentment. During the time you should place your happiness above everything else and only spend your time in those activities which make you truly happy.

10 days to live

The last few days of your life, whom do you want to spend with? What was the one thing you always wanted to do? Who were the people whom you loved with most and wanted to spend time with? What was the one place that you wanted to see the most and with whom? What would you do to make those 10 days the happiest days of your life? Can you spread enough joy and love in those ten days so that people will remember you for 10 generations to come.

10 hours to live

Think of the person that matters you the most. Would you spend your last hours with them in love or sit alone in fear and despair. What would be your last message to those whom you love and to the world? What would your last actions and deeds, those of love and laughter or those of fear and hate. Would you rejoice and celebrate the last few hours. No matter how you lived until that point wouldn’t you want to make every moment of your last 10 hours count. Make them truly count. Make those the best and the happiest moments of your life.

10 minutes to live

Your time is up. All you have is only 10 minutes. What would be the one thing you would do that would make you truly happy? Who would be the one person whom you would want to talk to in the end? What would be your last words just before you die? What would be your last feelings? And most importantly would you die a happy man?

 No matter how much time you have left, you always have a choice, to spend it with the people you love, to spend the time in activities that would bring you joy and happiness or just waste it away.

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Oct 242011
 

Your time is now. This is your moment of power .Begin now. Do not waste time by postponing things. Do not wander aimless. Whatever your dream or goal this is the best moment to start working on it. Let this moment mark the beginning of your journey to greatness and glory. There will never be a most perfect moment. Start now.

Do not delay. Do not be in dismay and do not brood over past disappointments. Let the failures of the past be buried. Begin anew. Make a fresh start. Fill this moment with vigour and enthusiasm and work like you will never get another moment and this will be your last .Even the richest of men cannot buy back time lost time .All the money in the world cannot get you back the time you wasted away in senseless activities and mindless pursuits .You cannot change what happened in the past, perhaps you wasted months and years in meaningless activities. There is no way you are getting back all the time. So, stop thinking and regretting about it .Do not waste the present moment thinking about the mistakes of the past.

Look forward to the future .Do not let your future be a mere extension of the past. Let it not end up with the same failures and disappointments as in the past. Let it be filled with the light of success and marks of greatness. Let success be your guiding light in the future. Your glorious future awaits you, begin now this very moment. The major reason why you procrastinate is that you do not have any goal to reach to. You do not have any ambition. You are just looking forward to spending your days here by any means. Life for you has become a mere passing of days and years with nothing to look forward to and nothing to strive for. You have ended up in rut of routine doing the same things day after day every year. You have no hope, no courage left and are merely waiting for death to end it all.

The Present Moment The present moment : Your moment of power

No matter what or how you have been in the past you have the power to change it. This very moment make it your resolve that no matter what you will not go to your old habits and old ways of thinking. This very moment take a strong decision that you will work to reach your goals and accomplish your dreams. This very moment become strong mentally, physically and emotionally.   The present moment is your moment of power, decide that you will aim high and strive with an iron will to reach all your aims

Do not throw away these precious moments for they make up life. You throw away these golden nuggets of time only to realize that you have thrown away your life. Do not go to your grave in regret that ‘if only I had made better use of my time’.

 No matter what the conditions or circumstances, begin now. Do not be struck in the planning phase. Planning is important but acting on these plans is what will ultimately get you success .It does not matter if the conditions are not perfect; it does not matter if you do not have all the resources. This is the moment of opportunity. Begin with whatever you have in hand. Begin now in earnest.

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Oct 162011
 

Death, the time when it all ends. Everyone alive today to die one day. None can escape from the jaws of death. No matter how much a man earns or how much power he holds all that he ultimately needs is 6 feet of space. Rich or poor, black or white, young or old all are equal in death: the final destination. From the moment man has set foot on this earth till the present moment millions have died and continue to die and new people take their place. This is the cycle of life where the old is cast away to make place for the new. From these millions history only remembers a few.

Even after thousands of years when the dust from their bones is gone great men are remembered and their lives continue to inspire us. These giants through their words and deeds continue to live in the hearts and minds of people. Their names and deeds transcend time and they are looked upto by men of every age and every era. Such men never die; their names are forever cherished by mankind.

You possess all the qualities that these great men had. You have the same power that these men held. You possess all the skills needed to be great. You possess infinite power to burn your name in the pages of history. These men of courage and confidence were no different from you.

For your name to be remembered forever you need to choose your calling, you should follow your heart and chase your dreams. You must have the courage to set new standards and achieve them. You must have the courage to re-define the norms in your industry. You must dream big enough to create things unseen, unheard or not thought of. You must be a trailblazer, a trendsetter, a history maker. The world does not remember the weak, the timid or the man who played safe and lived an average life. It does not stand in awe and admiration of such men. It remembers the dreamers, the doers, the norm breakers and the action takers.

Living Forever How to Live Forever

The world is your playground. Think about what you can do, what are you good at? What do you want to be remembered for? What do you want people to speak of when they think of you? Take up impossible dreams, set unrealistic goals and dedicate your life to make them a reality. All great men accomplished things that were once considered impossible to achieve or exist. You must see possibilities where others only see obstacles. Your life should revolve around achieving the impossible. You must be obsessed with creating something that would outlast you for generations to come.

Create something; a company or a product that people would love to use and remember you for it. Let your name be synonymous with it. Let your dreams, your creations carry your name forward for years after your death. When chasing such dreams the obstacles would be enormous. History is full of such men who tried, failed and gave up. No matter how many time you fail never give up. Do you want to be remembered as a failure? It is better to be remembered as a man who died for his dreams than as a failure. It is infinitely better to die in the pursuit of such dreams and goals than a life of ordinary existence.

In the end it’s all about the choices you make in life. No man is born great, it’s the choices that you make will propel you to greatness or mediocrity. Life is short, go for your dreams, and make achieving the impossible your purpose in life.

Let your name ring in the minds and hearts of men for a thousand years to come. Let your name be remembered forever.

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Sep 252011
 

I wander alone
To the depths of darkness and misery
To find answers to life’s questions
I travel on a lonely road

I seek wisdom
I look for answers
I need strength and courage
To keep me going on this journey

I travel day and night
Without any rest or respite
I see no end in sight
Still I travel alone on this road

I meet people on the road all along
Some stay short and some stay long
But no one comes all the way along
In the end I will be left all alone

At times the journey is happy and fun
At times it’s all gloomy and dark
But all that matters is
The journey has to go on

No matter what happens
The journey will go on
I know the journey has to end one day
But still I travel on the road of life

 

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